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I don't know exactly what she has in mind, but it's something different. I have 3 clues: 1) She has hand and foot jobbed me to the edge every day for 3 days, then stopped and told me to wait for Thursday. This is a Clear Violation of Thursday is Thursday and an attempt to expand Dominatrix Day to 4 days. And when I'm close and about to cum, she is just DEMOLISHING my balls with squeezing and pulling and digging them with her fingernails. A really painful way to back me off. Pulling I don't mind too much because it's a very interesting feeling, squeezing just hurts and fingernails hurt… Read more

I’m taking it so much better lately. I really figured out how to take my ass fucking much better. I have the mechanics all figured out now. My wife’s enthusiasm for Strapon Domination is unstoppable. It’s sexually and emotionally great for her. She loves to use that thing. It makes her feel romantically and emotionally secure, because she feels like she really owns me when she plays Dominatrix. She likes the visual aspect of it and is excited by watching me squirming, whimpering, occasionally pleading, lots of pain, lots of pleasure – pulling on my cuffs or rope while she drives into me. And… Read more

In the recent past, there might be a little Rough Stuff during the week, and occasionally I would be on Top. We were a Switch Couple, with plenty of conventional sex. In a deal that has faded away, if I worked out hard during the week I could request special outfits, like a School Girl Costume or a corset and stockings in exchange for my exercise. There were two sides to the coin, but I made almost all sexual decisions. It was actually from this agreement that my wife found her Dominatrix Role. I had done a good work out, and I asked her to dress up in black stockings and bustier like a Domin… Read more

I fucking **Knew** this was coming. My wife went out to lunch at a Korean Buffet with a bunch of her Asian Girlfriends. Now her lunch buddies include that older bitch from the Halloween party. She comes home, and like clockwork, when we go to bed I hear, “Hey, I saw something in a video. I was watching hard strapon videos like a tutorial for helping you. And I saw this wooden thing to keep the balls back and ready to spank and so you can’t stand up. I want one. It would be good for you. You could take so much more if we just try. Not just more paddle, but things to hurt your balls.” I told h… Read more

Thursday on Tuesday In my marriage, my wife is always, always, always asking for the one thing she feels she doesn’t get enough of: fucking me with a strapon. We still have vanilla sex, and it’s very nice and all. But if we have time she always wants the Rough Stuff. Always. She gets plenty of face sitting, and plenty of paddling and almost nightly CBT. Really, our most frequent sex is face sitting, then CBT. Usually a very ball crushing handjob. It is almost impossible to cum when your balls are being hurt that much, pulling and gripping and squeezing, while the other hand jerks you off.… Read more

My wife told me this afternoon that she wants 3 straight nights of pegging, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. She says we didn’t do it last week so I owe her, and it’s like Vig with a loan shark. I owe her not just one but three. One for the missed week, one tomorrow because it is Thursday, and one more because. It’s her favorite thing now. I pointed out that we only missed last week because she has been humping my face so much more. I love that and I would never complain, but I thought she was satisfied with that. Now she’s saying it made me miss my pegging and I owe her. I said, “it leaves me to… Read more

Gentle Reader, you may remember from previous posts that my wife and I have 3 rules. (1) No masturbating, (2) She can get oral anytime she wants, (3) If we both want to Top, we roll dice. Rule #3 has almost completely faded away. She always wants to Top. It seems to fit us a bit more naturally, so I don’t assert my rights on this very often. And I’m the one who turned our relationship kinky, so I can hardly object. It has evolved into this; One Night A Week she gets to play Dominatrix. Every Thursday, she gets to let her inner Mistress show. I look forward to this most weeks and some weeks I… Read more

In a bit of a twist; she has started talking a lot more when I am getting it. Maybe it was just her mood last week, but during my pegging she keeps saying things like, "The strapon is so good for you." "You need a lot more of this." "You need a good hard fucking all the time." "It's just what you need, but we should hurt your balls more. I'm going to buy something to really control your balls." And probably the most candid; "when you can take it for 10 or 15 minutes, really hard; I think I can cum from the vibration." Look at how long most videos last. 15 minutes of taking that big hard thin… Read more

Unless one is very slow on the uptake; one realizes that almost all Female Domination Porn is Performance Art. It’s all about pleasing the man. It’s all about his dick, his punishment, his orgasm, his this, his that. If you doubt that, look at the outfits the women wear. Some of those PVC and latex and leather suits with all the belts and buckles must take 30 minutes to put on. Femdom Empire is a great example. The women look just fantastic, and they have a full menu of every male deviant desire, but that’s clearly not about the women’s desire. A real Fm relationship is more about amusing her… Read more

I worked for 4 year for British Petroleum in Asia. I brought back a very pretty, young Asian wife. It was a great decision. I’ve been very busy with work this month. Because a Session with my wife often leaves me sore, we try to do those things on the weekend. Better if I have a day or so to recover. That doesn’t mean she, or I, don’t think about playing rough other times. But just because of scheduling, we haven’t done a thing outside of quick vanilla in more than a month. Last weekend, we planned nothing special except going to a Halloween Party. The Halloween party was in a friend’s back… Read more

Three Things Worry Me. I have always had Female Domination fantasies. I just do. I have always liked power exchange, whether the male or female is on Top. They are different moods, and mindsets, but I can work my way into either one. Sometimes seeing the smaller, weaker female bullied turns me off. It looks too much like Garden Variety abuse, and I saw plenty of domestic v******e in my c***dhood. When my Wife is on the bottom, she just can’t take much abuse. She is petite and very feminine. She gets enough spanking to warm the flesh, some face fucking, occasional anal, and that’s about it.… Read more

I’m in for a long hard night, which is good and bad. Slightly frightening and exhilarating and sexy. My petite Asian wife and I were cuddling a bit on Wednesday, and I said I’d like to strap her to our spanking bench this weekend. A metal bench we bought online. (You’ve seen them in some videos, available from etsy for about $250. ) She had the same plans for me, and invoked the “Let’s role the dice” rule. There are just a couple rules to our sex life that have evolved from ‘something we did once’ into ‘how we do things’. Asking for the dice is invoking #3. First Rule; no masturbating. All… Read more

It would be fair to ask; “OK TM, if your posts and comments are real, and you have such a rich and varied sex life; why do you look at porn?” A reasonable question with a 2 part answer. (1) It’s a bad habit that I haven’t bothered to break. A habit I formed before my wife turned so kinky, when I just fantasized about Female Domination. Initially my reaction to some videos was, “Holy Shit! I had no idea people did that. How exciting!” Now that my wife and I do pretty much everything except sounding, I find videos much less exciting. A vid of some ferocious strapon pounding is less amazing w… Read more

I got up this morning, walked into the kitchen an started the coffee. I returned to the bedroom, and crawled back into bed with my warm and cuddly wife. We kissed a bit, and I asked her, “Want to do something tonight?” She’s on her period now. Physically not up to sex and a few days of her being in a foul mood just before. For a lot of couples that would mean a sexless few days, except for maybe a charity handjob. Before we turned kinky, she would try to suppress the impulse to be cross and sharp. Now, she uses it for motivation. Her angry mood isn’t muted, it’s amplified. “Want to do some… Read more

So get this. The Misses has bought one of those mechanical milking things for men. A device guys use to get off, “the thrusting, spinning male masturbator”. It’s like a fleshlight with a motor to make the dick chamber spin and pump. It has a mount on it to attach it to a flat surface. She has told me that the next time we go on vacation, she wants to pay some girl to suck my dick while she fucks me in the ass. I said I don’t want to get an STD or arrested hiring some unfortunate girl or undercover cop. I think this is her solution. Next week will be her time of the month, and it always puts… Read more

I have come to believe there are 3 ways for a man to have some form or level of orgasm. Guys who are in chastity for a long time seem to cum just from teasing had a little vibration or ball squeezing. I wouldn’t know much about that. Guys can cum just from pumping and friction on their shaft, particularly just below the head. Most common, typically 3 to 7 minutes and a one second orgasm. And twice in my life I have had an orgasm just by being overloaded, until something triggers in the brain. Less stimulation, but much more of it. Years ago, a very oral girlfriend made me cum just by licking… Read more

Our most frequent sex gradually became this: she would be waiting in bed laying on her back. I would kneel next to and over her, kissing her mouth and neck and breasts. She would reach over with her right hand and grip my balls and squeeze and pinch them. Often she would giggle at my gasps and flinching. Often she would tell me how she wanted to be serviced. “I want at least 10 minutes of ass licking. I want you to nibble and really suck hard around my asshole. Really make me feel it. Then I want you to lick my pussy for a long time. After you start I want an ice cube in your mouth. If you mak… Read more

Ball Squeezing In the World of Men’s Porn, the Dominatrix or Mistress usually just springs up fully formed, like Venus emerging from her half shell. I don’t think this is really the case very often. It wasn’t with us. It was a little rough play, those tastes and behaviors reinforced, those growing with habit and experimentation. We were always a bit playful, a bit of light bondage. Our play was more about teasing than real punishment. I’m physically many times her strength. She is a very pretty, petite Asian with a beautiful figure; small waist, muscular full ass, beautiful breasts with s… Read more

Personally: I'm getting more than I bargained for. My wife is becoming more into Kink than I, but I'm the one who started it so it's hard to back out of when she really enjoys it. She says things like; "Let's just do strapon sex for a month or so, and you'll get better at taking it. Then I can fuck you as hard as I want." She likes to really slam me, while gripping my balls. It is so overstimulating that I think I'm going to faint, or die, or cum. When I'm getting it, I feel so weak that I don't think I could stand. Each thrust with that big dildo of hers is like a punch in the guts, and the… Read more

Ok, the last time my wife and I played S/M games, I was on top. I bound her face down, gave her some oral, then spanked her to almost crying, then gave her a long, hard, deep ass fucking. She's much more into receiving anal lately. Now we have a long weekend, and it's her turn to Top. She told me she's going to buy something. I don't know if it's a strap on, or something to hurt my balls. Almost certainly one of those two. And once my hands are behind my back, I'm sure she'll want at least 40 minutes of licking, with an ice cube or hot tea in my mouth.… Read more