OUR RULES FOR BDSM IN A LOVING RELATIONSHIP 1. You must enter into the bdsm relationship by mutual consent - it must be a loving agreement or it merely becomes domination and sadism. 2. You must both agree what it is you are going to get out of the bdsm relationship. You, the man, is going to have the thrill of doing what he wants to a woman (your wildest fantasies can now be played out). She must be rewarded by the thrill of the unknown, the relaxation of abnegating responsibility for the sex session, AND she must be rewarded with her orgasmic pleasure - she will also get pleasure from kn… Read more