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Pro wrestling as a precursor to cuckolding

I grew up in the 80s pretty naive, but I recognized that I "felt funny" watching pro wresting. It was pretty sexual to me and I didn't understand those feelings. I'll lay out elements of a match that aroused me the most: A complete mismatch, where you knew who was going to win; usually a very big "bad boy" wrestler that was the champ and an unknown whipping boy that was there to accept pain and humiliation. Very skimpy outfits and at least the winner was a very muscular alpha male. Typically the "bad guy" would cheat somehow even though he didn't need to. Then, the superior wrestler would pro… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 2 years ago 10

How has your porn viewing changed?

I've been consuming pornography for nearly 30 years now, on and off, and of course with the advent of the internet it's very easy to find. I still do enjoy the porn I grew up with, mainly early 90s porn (believe I've blogged about this before, but bottom line, I liked the pubic hairstyles of that era and I like the fact that since it was pre-Viagra, the men were just true studs for hire). Anyway, here are some thoughts on how my taste in porn has changed over time "Gonzo" porn, aka reality porn I always avoided the wall to wall sex genre back in the adult bookstore days. At the time, I pref… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 2 years ago 6

Nature of xhamster friend requests

I generally have a live and let live attitude. I used to accept all friend requests unless you had zero content (you're not even trying!). I'm thinking of being more selective on accepting friend requests moving forward. I'd like some sort of interaction on sex or porn, otherwise what's the point of being "friends"? I tried to be fairly interactive when I'm on xhamster and do feel like I have some "friends" that I can share hot videos or ideas with. THAT'S what friends should be, IMO. My biggest pet peeves for profiles here, in order: No content Lots of "deleted" videos (you do need to go in… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 3 years ago 6

Hands off!!

Quick rant - I don't think men having partner sex should touch their own genitalia, especially to finish off for the orgasm. Ever (exceptions below). Here's the reason: it's taking away something that your partner probably wants to feel empowered to do, to provide that 6 seconds of euphoria that represents the male orgasm. Also, that's what you do when you're alone, not when you're with a partner. It's like serving the wine and taking a drink for yourself and snubbing your partner. Why is it so prevalent in porn? I dunno, I suppose that being a male sex performer has its challenges and at so… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 3 years ago 6

Please Pause These Porn Production Practices

This may be a little redundant from a prior post, but nevertheless I'll re-think what I really don't like to see in porn: Ass to Mouth - no clue why anyone thinks this is erotic. Have fun with the infection you're going to get! Disgusting! Highly edited scenes - definitely takes away from any semblance of realism; in 90s porn, the camera would typically move away from the performers when they were about to disrobe or changes positions. Don't like that at all. I'm a huge CFNM fan and a big part of the turnon in my private sex life is the voyeur aspect of a sex session. I love it when we shift… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 3 years ago 12

Favorite Female Stars -- Tiffany Million

I'm not naturally attracted to blondes, and that's reflected in my porn star choices. Tiffany is the exception to this. Firstly, I recall her as being one of the first female stars with a completely shaved pussy - I remember getting one of those yearend "porn guides" and it had a full page closeup photo of her completely bare pussy - so hot! Secondly, she seemed to really ENJOY sex, her pleasure was very important. In most cases, I don't believe pro porn women climax during the shoots, but I don't see how she didn't. Mainly because - and this makes her pretty unique in terms of performers - sh… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 3 years ago 1

My Bull Fantasies

I've been very interested in MFM porn and in particular cuckold porn for a long time. I recall one of my first forays into this type of porn was a scene I saw with a boy girl couple fucking by a pool and a well known male star "stumbled" across the coupling and started jerking off. Essentially, that well known male star was being in an early cuck type of role, where the other male was getting bareback sex and a nice orgasm whereas he simply was jerking off to porn like most porn consumers do. It was hot. This was a LONG time ago but I distinctly remember shooting my load halfway across the roo… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 3 years ago 6

Fav Male Stars -- Randy West

I used to really not like Randy West because I don't think he is that good looking and he is one of the least endowed male stars that I've seen. I also didn't like the gonzo genre that he performs in all that much, which I define as plotless porn. I've changed my view on the latter, and I think that convinced me to enjoy the former much more. What I appreciate about this genre (when it's done well) is the amount of unscripted verbal discussions and a reduced amount of editing cuts. I also like the gratuitous nudity, the little interviews he does before and after, and how he genuinely wants hi… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 3 years ago 11

When SHE does the fucking

I've been having intercourse with my current partner for about 18 months. It turns out, she has G spot orgasms and not clit-centered orgasms. I enjoy going down on her and she lets me but it doesn't do that much for her. It gets her wet so it's good for foreplay but she sorta just allows it because she knows I enjoy it. We had some success with the cowgirl position but I have some erection issues after a few minutes. So as per prior post, I take generic cialis and am rock hard the whole time. Here's the thing - when we have sex, SHE fucks me. As I tend to be submissive, this is a real turn on… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 3 years ago 6

Cialis Experience

I'm a 48 male and never really had any issues with erections until a few years ago, I would struggle with getting hard for Round 2. I think I have a longer refractory period than most men, and I resigned myself to a one and done kinda male. My long term partner would ONLY do Missionary position and even though she could come from cowgirl, she didn't want to try it (IKR, maybe that's why she's my ex). Anyway, new partner that really enjoys intercourse and wants to get on top. We had some success, but.... I would frequently lose my erection when she was on top. Never when I was in missionary. I… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 4 years ago 7

Fav Female Stars -- Jeanna Fine

For me, a female porn star is NOT all about looks, it's much more about attitude about sex; especially when she conveys the fact that this isn't about money, or the lifestyle, it's that she genuinely enjoys performing sex acts knowing that millions of men are jerking off to her in action. The fact that she probably does the same types of sex acts offscreen as onscreen. And in no small way does the fact that she was literally a mom (that is, bore a c***d) AND THEN returned to porn makes her so much hotter (most "MILF" performers are just more mature as opposed to actually being a mom). She had… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 4 years ago 12

Fav male stars -- Peter North

My all time favorite male performer is Peter North. IMO, he should be the photo of the "Man" entry in Wikipedia. He obviously took very good care of his body. He's very muscular and not a lot of body hair (I have an aversion to body hair that I got since c***dhood). Like Ashlyn Gere, he's a terrible actor. He got a bad rap as he started in gay porn and was said to be extremely sensitive about having his hair touched. His cock is "beautiful". I know that sounds weird for a hetero dude to say, but OMG it's just so handsome. Wikipedia states that he is credited in ~2,600 scenes and let's say he… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 4 years ago 14

Fav Female Stars -- Ashlyn Gere (part 1)

Ashlyn Gere is my all time favorite female porn star. Why? She's just sexy and comes off as really enjoying performing in front of the camera. She's a terrible actress in the non sex parts of her movies, although she has a sexy voice. I LOVE her tanlines and well groomed landing strip later in her career. She is fairly short with GREAT breasts. I'm a big fan of brunettes, I'm not really attracted to blondes. She started her porn career in her 30s, which I think is very sexy. She was active for 13 years, well into her 40s. I thought she was sexier the older she got and she seemed to really work… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 4 years ago 11

Coming of age porn

I am wondering if porn fans have a certain affection for the porn they consumed while coming of age. In my case, that was early 90s. I was the last c***d and had a lot of time home alone. When I was bold enough, I rented VHS tapes and developed pretty defined porn tastes. So why do I like 90s porn so much? Female stars I've always had a thing for pubic hair, beginning when a girlfriend told me that she had to shave in order to go hottubbing. I do not like natural bush, which was the norm in the 70s/80s era. It really just grosses me out. So in the 90s era, you got some sexy pubic hair that re… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 4 years ago 12

Cuckold Connisseur

Here's what I look for in a cuckold video: 1. Power Imbalance There must be some sort of preferential treatment in favor of the bull over the cuckold for it to be a good cuckolding video, IMO. I prefer in this order: cuckold locked up in chastity; cuckold actively denied sex; cuckold has to wear a condom; cuckold forced to jerk off watching. 2. Fit, studly and naked bull I really like Shane Diesel as a bull, but he freaking never takes off his T shirt. That's the only thing about his videos that I really don't like. He has a great body BTW. IMO, a lot of body display of the bull is key in cu… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 5 years ago 24

Thoughts on Anal Sex

I have mixed feelings about anal sex. Firstly, I've never penetrated up the butt. I HAVE had toys and fingers up my ass, and I like that a lot. As far as porn, my first experience with being aroused by anal was the scene in one of the Devil in Mrs Jones movies (can't remember which, but it was the first one with Lois Ayres). The scene included a performance scene with an announcer that said something to the effect, "ok, it's time to watch the 'Dance of the Double Dong'". With that, Peter North and Marc Wallace come out and fuck some starlette and they double penetrate her. That was the first… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 5 years ago 16

Porn and Condoms

So I decided to buy some DVD porn online; it should arrive tomorrow, but I'm not sure when I will be watching it. Yes, there's a lot of porn available online (for free) but I thought I'd give it a go. It took me quite a while to decide on what to buy, but at the end of the day, I went with what was relatively affordable and free of condoms. I don't mind using condoms myself; as a matter of fact, my long term partner "required" them for a while and I was turned on by that for a few reasons. A big part of the reason is that I'm very turned on by CFNM, and specifically being watched. I was alway… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 5 years ago 8

Ethnic Porn

The cuckold genre of porn is heavily weighted towards "interracial" pairings; typically, the bulls are black males and the hotwife and cuckold are white. I don't dislike this setup, as I think that the skin tone contrast between the couple having sex is sexy. I'm a fan of many black male performers as well. I do think this is overdone, and seemingly racist. In fact, "skin tone contrast" is something that has always been erotic for me. As a fan of early 90s era porn, many female porn stars had incredible tan lines, which I loved. My real-life HS girlfriend said - in a very matter-of-fact way -… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 5 years ago 4

Bi-Sexual Porn with a woman

Male on male porn does little to nothing for me. However, during my video rental days, I checked out a few bisexual movies. They usually suck because of lower production values, unrecognized male stars, and generally less attractive female stars. However, one I saw was Western-related and there was a scene where one of the guys was in jail and the other guy and the woman were on the outside. She "encouraged" him to suck the inmate's cock and then started jacking herself off watching him do it. I thought it was hot as fuck. I've unfortunately never come across that clip since. The first time… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 5 years ago 13

"Collection" - all time favorites

I have wanted to categorize my favorite videos for a while - and I gave it a start for now. I've separated all the full length movies into one, and I'll probably keep doing some housecleaning. But I thought that I'd separate out the best of the best. In no particular order, and I'll probably update (assuming I can). I'll explain why each is the "cream" of the crop in the comments below:… Read more

Posted by lovetosubmit 5 years ago 23