My (LONG) List of Kinks and Fetishes

***Special Note: Parts of my list were edited by XH because certain terms used are considered inappropriate ~*Smile*~

I've used bold to indicate my absolute top favs. They are in no particular order; however, I might go back and list them in alphabetical order:

Mommy/boy dynamics

Anal penetration

Ass Worship

Asphyxiation

Anal/butt plugs (during sex, worn under clothes in public)

Gas Masks and Latex/Rubber Masks

Cunnilingus

Lactophilia

a****listic behaviors and characteristics- dominant (snarling, sniffing, biting, other claiming acts, territoriality, predatory stalking)

a****listic behaviors and characteristics- submissive (feral characters or behavior, domesticated pet behavior such as sitting at owner's foot and cheeking their thigh, purring, licking)

Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)

Cumming quickly (premature ejaculation or knee-jerk reflex response)

Cum-marking (letting it dry visibly on the skin)

Cumming in one's pants

Cumming in or on one's partner

Cock worship

Begging or offering (begging or pleading for mercy, for sexual release, to be taken)

Cuckolding

Foot Worship (shoes, boots, bare feet, stockings, dirty feet)

Jerk Off Instruction

Mindfucking/Mind Games

Bondage (ropes, leather cuffs, steel handcuffs)

Role Play

Sensation Play

Tie & Tease

Accidental stimulation (proximity and friction, involuntary arousal, situations of adrenaline and reflexes)

Age differences (e.g., older woman/younger man pairing)

Amazons /strong women

Biting (marking, nipping, chewing)

Blow-jobs

Bondage

Bukkake

Uncircumcised cocks

Large cocks

Heavy balls

Durable erection

Deep-dicking

Trouser bulges

Cock bondage (cock rings, harnesses and straps, leather rope-work)

Dancing

Deep-throating

Dildos

Discipline or punishment

Dominance and submission

Double penetration

Messy orgasms

Exhibitionism

Exposure (with or without eroticism; feeling physically exposed, such as with legs open; a woman's shirt being opened to expose her breasts; being forced to undress in public; someone opening a door on people having sex)

Face-fucking

Face-sitting

Fantasies (shared or solitary; role-playing)

Finger-fucking

Forced orgasm

Foreplay

Fucking machines

Gags (ball-gags, scarves, mouth bits, etc)

Guns and gun-play (guns as fetish objects; gun-battles as flirting or foreplay; guns used for sexual penetration; games of Russian Roulette)

Hair or fur fetishization (buzz-cuts; long hair; hair-grabbing during blow-jobs; coming in someone's hair; pubic hair; hairy chests; underarm hair)

Hand fetishization

Hand-jobs

Healing or comfort sex

Human furniture

Imprisonment, erotic (cages, cells, closets, coffins, etc)

Intelligence

Knives and knife-play

Make-up sex or reunions

Masochism

Master and slave

Masturbation

Medical scenarios and fetishization

Messiness and markers of arousal (mussed hair; flushed cheeks; swollen mouth; displaying bite marks or hickeys; clothes in disarray; sprawling; cum-spattered skin)

Military fetishization

Multiple orgasms

Multiple partners (sequential/serial sexual encounters; orgies, gang-bangs, or group sex)

Muscled bodies

Neck fetishization (nape of the neck, throat, hickeys, etc)

Nipple play or torture

Oral fixation or fetishization (lips, tongue, or whole mouth; french-kissing licking, biting or chewing one's lip(s)

Pampering (spoiling someone rotten with gifts or money; physical pampering such as massage and grooming; giving someone a novel or unexpected degree of emotional or sexual care; catering to someone's every whim)

Penance or reform (bad boy turns good; evil seeks to change; performing acts of atonement or restitution; self-mortification; martyrdom; selflessness; apologies or apology sex)

Physical imperfections

Physical responses (face or ears burning; little hairs lifting on the scalp or neck; gut tightening; pulse quickening or missing a beat; lashes fluttering or lids growing heavy; mouth coming open; dick or pussy throbbing)

Possessiveness or jealousy

Power issues (inequities in beauty, rank, or class; power games; BDSM; power reversals)

Powers of attraction (characters such as sirens; pheromones; magnetic and charismatic characters in general)

Predator/prey pairings

Prison scenarios

Protectiveness (physically or verbally defending someone; care-taking in general; bodyguard scenarios; mysterious benefactors or protectors)

Restraint (pinning someone down; pushing someone's arm up behind their back during sex; covering or clasping someone's hands to prevent movement)

Restraints (handcuffs, leather ties, chains, etc)

Restraints, full-body

Rimming or tongue-fucking

Rope-work (intricate/artistic erotic bondage)

Rough sex (quick and dirty sex; hate or grudge sex; angry sex; fighting/wrestling; jackhammer fucking; sex with no or little lube)

Sadism or sadomasochism

Sandwich sexual position or chain fuck

Scent as an erotic element

Seduction (one-on-one; two-on-one; verbal or physical; intense erotic courtship or teasing)

Sensory overload or enhancement

Sex in public or semi-public places

Sex in vehicles (cars, taxis, limos; planes or space shuttles; motorcycles; carnival rides)

Sex interrupted

Sex on, against, or under furniture

Sex outdoors/outside (in a field; in a rainstorm; with snow falling; on the beach; in a graveyard; in an alley)

Sex slaves or mates

Sex standing up (including against a wall)

Sexual appetite or excess (hypersexuality, i.e., high sex drive))

Sexual frustration (orgasm denial or being unable to cum; blue balls; enforced abstinence; self-denial; the inability of two people to touch)

Sexual movements (back arching; hips lifting; thrusting back; writhing, jerking, bucking; clenching; grinding or rocking; trembling or shivering; hooking legs around shoulders; pressing someone's legs back toward the bed; riding someone's fingers)

Shower sex

Simultaneous orgasm

Slow and/or prolonged sex

Spanking (over the knee or lap, etc)

Spooning

Striking with implements (whips, belts, riding crops, canes, paddles, etc)

Striptease

Submission (obedience; submissive behaviors such as boot kissing, crawling, keeping one's eyes lowered, or kneeling for master)

Talking and communication issues (dirty talk or verbal seduction; sweet talking; reciting poetry; talking someone to orgasm; talking during sex; pillow talk; phone sex; speech becoming broken as one is aroused or upset; being inarticulate or articulate)

Taste as an erotic element

Tattoos

Teasing or tickling

Temperamental personalities (driven or obsessed; hot-tempered or testy; moody; misanthropic or bitter; abrasive)

Threesomes (M/F/M, M/M/M, etc)

Touching (stroking and caressing; cuddling or nuzzling; huddling for warmth; hugging; holding hands in public; touching as UST; brief brushes of contact either deliberate or accidental; PDAs; thighs brushing under a table)

Toughness (machismo or hyper-masculinity; physical stamina; a hard surface covering an inner softie; resolve; survival skills)

Toys and devices (sex toys of all kinds; feathers, ice cubes, hot wax, etc)

Trapped or stranded together (on another world; on a desert island; in a cave-in; in a cabin during a snowstorm; in an elevator)

Triangles (love triangles)

Triangulation of desire

Trust and vows (promises are kept or broken; loyalty or betrayal)

Urgency for sex (begging to suck cock; desperate to fuck; greedy bottom)

UST (unresolved sexual tension)

Vaginal/female genital fetishization (wet, tight; virginal; aching/stiff clit; wide lips; multi-orgasmic)

Vaginal penetration with foreign objects

Vampires

Violent feelings (hatred; murderous rage; need for revenge)

Violent and dark natures (sadists; assassins and murderers; sociopaths who make twisted, scary displays of affection)

Virgins or inexperienced partners

Voice fetishization (cracking or broken; husky, low, throaty; purring; accents; whispering close to someone's ear)

Voyeurism

Washing (washing one's partner, body or hair; bubble baths; shower scenes)

Watersports

Well-fucked (being fucked out; fuck-dazed; sated and sleepy; wrecked; softened and debauched)

Wet dreams or erotic dreams

Wish-fulfillment

Writing (love letters or notes; secret admirers; poetry; storytelling; tracing words or figures on skin)


WOW.... You've read my list! I love you! lol