Hiding your Xhamster exploits from your partner

We see it all the time. Guys and gals sneaking around their partners backs to knock some dust off and cheat a bit on the sly. Why not involve them?! Here’s some ideas on introducing your mate to join you in your pursuit of fun by creating your own.

-Explain to him/her that you are their mate and truly love only them (Don’t lie if it’s a false statement)

-Be honest and show them what you like. Communication people!!! Chances are they will be down to play here too but you’ll never know sneaking about!

-Start slow by showing some sexy pics or some quality well produced material. Make it worth their while for the trouble. Turn up the sexy knob a couple clicks and bring your A game!!! Make them take notice that it turns you on to be in the situation together.

-While said vids/pics are up comment on what you like. Maybe the hair, the makeup, outfits, whatever floats your bobber!! TELL THEM!!

-Leave a sexy note or text to them about an upcoming rendezvous on Xhamster. Play it up. Get some wine, some sexy clothing or toys. Show him/her the investment in them correlates to spending time playing here. This would be the point of turning what could be a negative experience into a positive one. Show them that no matter what is happening on the site, they are still the center of your love. Be truthful and mean it. Make love to the mind and the body will follow.

-We hear comments so often about how lucky he/she is (mostly he in our case). Think about it. How lucky would we be if we hid from each other instead of teaming up to make something awesome we can both enjoy?! There is not a man/woman alive that has been with their mate a while that doesn’t find them attractive in some way. Exploit her best qualities and enjoy them. If you’re both on board share!! Nothing makes your mate hotter than some sexy comments. It really makes it worth the effort. No you don’t have to go full on Jenna Jameson here folks. Some tasteful erotic pics are more than enough to do the trick. If that works out up your game. Maybe a short vid... Before long you’ll both be hot and bothered by the thought of being here. When you hide behind the shadows you are truly missing out on a ton of fun with your partner. What have you got to lose? If they’re not on the same page it might be a time to re-evaluate the relationship. Trust issues and not being on the same page will kill any relationship. Be open. Be honest. Quit hiding what you enjoy from your partner!!!

***You will thank us later!

Be Happy. Be Horny. Be Honest.
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