Safety Tips for New Couples Looking to Swing

Want to spice up your love life by becoming a swinger? Then
take a look at these important tips that are necessary for
any new couple. You'll find out how to handle this swinging
lifestyle safely and what the best ways are to find other
swinging couples are.



1. Do not let them know about your identity. The reason is
because if the person you're going to see is cheating,
then you don't want them to know too many details about
yourself. For example, if your new partner is a woman and
her husband finds out that she's cheating, then you
won't like the scene that will come afterwards when
the angry husband comes along.


Try and book a hotel room so that they won't know the
location of your home. Don't let them know your real
name (or at least your full name), don't tell them where
you work and what you do, and don't leave anything lying
around that may contain your ID (such as a wallet or purse).



2. If you and your partner are not sure whether or not you
would be comfortable with swinging, we have a suggestion:
Try and do a little bit of role playing. By role playing,
you'll be able to get yourself ready for the actual
sex fling. For example, a good method is using blindfolds.
You and your partner take turns putting it on each other
while pretending that the other person is a complete stranger.
Do you two feel comfortable? Does it feel more sensual than
usual?


3. Since you're new at swinging, it's a good idea
to find another swinger couple that's new too. It can
feel sort of intimidating when you do it with someone experienced,
so when everyone's not experienced, it doesn't
seem so scary and makes the night much more enjoyable.


4. How do you mention to your partner that you would like
to give this swinging lifestyle a try and that you would
like to consider married personals? This might be a hard
topic to bring up in a married relationship. However, the
best time for you to bring this up would be during lovemaking.
There are many other methods out there of bringing this
topic up, but after speaking to several other swinger couples,
I have come to the conclusion that this is the most popular
and successful method.


So when you are having sex, bring up the topic of bringing
another person or couple in to bed with you two. If possible,
see if you can turn this into a role playing session. If you
partner seems to be enjoying it, then make a suggestion
to give it a try.


After you two are finished with sex, bring the topic back
up again. If your partner says yes to it, then that's
great! Almost 99% of the time, when they respond well to
it in bed, they WILL respond well to the idea afterwards
too! Now, you've successfully brought up the idea
of trying the swinger lifestyle and using married personals!