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My Cuck Porn OCD

My Cuck Porn OCD

This might sound like a pet peeve or insignificance, but whenever I watch a wife-sharing, cuckold, hotwife, threesome, etc. video (or one supposedly categorized as one) I always check to see if the woman is wearing a wedding ring - on her ring finger - on her left hand. If she is wearing one it shall enable me to experience deep satisfaction knowing the video is of a genuine wife and I will derive more sexual pleasure purely because of this little nuanced visual confirmation. If she isn't wearing a ring - on that finger - on that hand then I do not get that same satisfaction because, on a psychological level, she isn't a wife even if she is in a relationship. To me she's just a partner, girlfriend, fuckbuddy, friends with benefits or even a common-law-wife.

Don't get me wrong, videos of non-married women being shared with men they're not in a relationship with are still exciting, but they do not share the same level of eroticism of a genuine wife-sharing video in my estimation because there is no underlying sense of naughtiness, debauchery, indecency or licentiousness which is apparent with married wife-sharing videos. There is no sullying of the wedded bond, there is no defiling of marriage vows, no dishonoring of conjugal trust and no tainting of nuptial purity.

While non-married couples can have the same level of relationships as their married counterparts in this day and age, they lack the sanctity of a hallowed union that privileges a husband and wife. Thus it is far more carnal to see a married couple break their oath of exclusivity, to eclipse their holy matrimony, to transcend their spiritual wedlock so the wife can revel in explicit extramarital sex.

These thoughts of mine pertain to my perception of the videos I watch. I understand there may be a swath of genuine videos I'm disregarding but that is how my cuck fetish works, that's how it's programmed in my mind. I fully respect videos of married couples who do not conform to the convention of wedding rings. Many married couples just don't wear them and many cultures have alternatives that are expressed in other visual forms. I can only enjoy in my own way, your mileage may vary...

What are your thoughts?
Published by gulzarhamster
10 years ago
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socalwifewantsbbc
married sluts turn me on!
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WOW! It's like you took the words out of my mouth! A lot of people don't take into account the intricacies of the lifestyle and how it could and can affect one's state of arousal... Couldn't agree with you more!
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Jackreacher777
Amateur, and married to me is the key element. Not sure why I feel like that, but without it doesn't allow the mind to Lat h on to the wonder what the women is thinking about
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Gotta admit it makes a BIG difference when the lady is wearing a wedding ring while taking cock that is obviously not her husband's.
Don't really know why this makes such a difference, but it does!

Maybe it's the 'taboo' element? Maybe it's the fact that you know she just can't help getting more excited when it's a strange cock that's poking her? Maybe that's why the interracial vids are so hot...........a white woman with a wedding ring has a large black cock embedded inside her - you just KNOW he's not her husband; and you just KNOW she's loving that fuck.
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I'm with you on this. To me, the absence of a ring takes away the from the film. No matter how hot the action, I don't find that same level of excitement as when it's a married woman participating.
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gulzarhamster
to Mrstevela : While I agree marital-free threesomes are hot, they are not as hot as ones with participating married couples. It's the depravity and disregard of the holy union which which gets my gears going. OK, some folks don't wear rings or symbols of marriage, but like hotwives who wear ankle chains, the visual ornament of a ring on a wife's finger explicitly exhibits her adulterous nature and this is much more exciting.

I've seen college threesomes, casual BF/GF/best friend threesomes and other non-marital threesomes but they're just not as hot.
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I like amateur couples, and I like to see the rings, but it's not mandatory. As someone suggested, marrieds don't always wear them. Besides, some of the fun takes place between unmarried folks, who like to add a third to increase her pleasure or help satisfy his need to see his lover being satisfied. What I look for is a husband or significant other in the background, usually stroking, and I like some of the story leading up to the penetration. Also like to listen to the woman talking to her new lover afterwards - and if time permits watching her trying to get him hard again, or inviting hubby over to the bed to help her stay hot by fucking or eating her, - help her have another orgasm while the lover recovers.

I also like it when the wife tells her husband how good the sex is while the lover is fucking her. Seeing my wife have an orgasm with her lover is a big turn-on, and shows that the woman is definitely comfortable with the scenario and not just doing it for hubby! :smile:
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I agree, a GF is free to do what she wants, no moral boundry like a wife would have. And having the ring on shows even more that it is taboo because 1. she doesn't give a shit she has it on and that she is humiliating her husband, 2. the one fucking her sees it, knows it and probably makes him more horny that here is someone else that has to pay for this wife's life and the BF is getting all the good stuff. Plus she will not attach as much, a wedding ring is way more sluttier that anyone who does not wear one, and I crave that.
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i agree 100% and i am guilty of doing the same thing. i always looking for the wedding ring on the chick. there are video's you watch and you just know she is not married to him - i think that makes it so much hotter
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I agree, but in this Hamster site, it's often difficult to discern the difference between legitimate wife-sharing, cuck and threesome activities, and fake stuff. I'm always suspicious when the camera is stationary - it's usually just some guy acting out a fantasy while fucking his wife. I love it when the wife, her hubby and her lover are all in the vid, and it's obviously amateur.
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RodNHand
I look for the ring. But I like it to be backed up with conversation, looks, etc which confirm the true "wifeness".
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gulzarhamster
to wirecpl : That's true. I know of the Indian culture where a wife wears a 'sindoor' (vermilion) on her forehead and a 'mnangalsutra' (marriage necklace). I guess it comes down to whether a wedding band actually looks like a rock with some kind of gem, but even then a wedding band can be just a plain ring.
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I agree completly with you, but remember that in some countries / cultures it is normal to wear the wedding ring on the right hand, so you need to look twice as hard ....lol
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I look for the ring. There's additional impact when you can see she's married.
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