Self Bondage For My Husband, Welcome Home

i am sharing this as a short blog entry because often people ask about what kind of BDSM activities my husband and i introduce into our largely vanilla relationship. Every now and then (with my next planned time being tonight!) i like to put myself in bondage as a surprise for my husband when he gets home from work. This completely eliminates the risk of responsibilities or distractions (laundry, preparing dinner, yard work, office work, TV, etc.) interfering with us having some great one on one time. He has NEVER come home, found me bound, and untied me so he could go mow the lawn or watch the game, LOL.

Any ideas or suggestions for future self bondage is greatly appreciated, since i have kinda gotten into a bit of a routine with what is a very simple but effective bondage (though as i endeavor to describe it below it does not sound so simple, LOL). Not that he is complaining, he loves coming home from work to find me bound and helpless, waiting for him. He usually teases me for awhile, even though i am blindfolded, naked, spread eagled and dripping wet, begging for his cock inside me.

To prepare for his arrival, i get undressed (sometimes i leave on a few old items that are ready for the trash that he needs to tear or cut off of me) and place a pre-knotted rope around the footboard with the ends on the mattress where my ankles will be. i sit in the middle of our king sized bed and put cuffs with O-rings on my ankles. Next i put each foot through a pre knotted looped rope that rests under my knees and attach each looped rope to an O-ring at the end of another rope that runs behind the headboard and has 3 O-rings tied into it for varying attachment points. This looped knee rope is also adjustable by about 50% should he want to easily position my knees farther apart). Next i use the rope around the footboard to secure each of my ankles wide apart (the rope has a knot in the middle that allows him to shorten the overall length of the rope later, spreading my ankles wider without untying me, and for quick release one end of the rope is attached to the ankle cuff’s O-ring with a carabiner). Finally i put cuffs on my wrists with carabiners attached and put on the blindfold, then blindly attach the carabiners to one of the higher rings in the rope that runs behind the headboard. The rope is attached behind the headboard on each side of the bed to one of those cleats you see on boats which allows him to loop more rope around the cleat to more severely limit my mobility. He can also replace the carabiners with other devices like locks to make my bondage inescapable.

Last time i did this was a couple months ago and when he found me he teased me with ice, dripped a few drops of hot wax on my nipples and near my swollen clit, clamped my nipples and flogged me playfully before fucking me with a glass dildo while nibbling on my clit until i orgasmed hard. Only then, in my post orgasmic haze, did my swollen sex get his hard cock deep inside me. One thing i especially love, when he climaxes inside me while i am bound, he immediately goes down on me, cleaning both my arousal and his cum from inside me with his tongue before i leak all over the sheets. Damn, now i really want to do this again tonight!!!