Relationship Maintenance
I find monogamy abnormal, unhealthy, and unnatural. As such, I believe a monogamous relationship requires more attention and maintenance than a non-monogamous relationship.
The eternal monotony of monogamy will inevitably lead to straying eyes, and almost certainly straying genitals. Your spirit, heart, mind, and body comprehend the fundamental need to fuck, and to be absolutely non-monogamous.
Fucking is never cheating. Never. Lying is cheating. Should you make the terrible error of agreeing to a monogamous relationship, then fuck someone else, you are cheating. You are cheating by lying, not by fucking. The two of you already cheated yourselves by attempting to be monogamous in the first place. Remember, it’s not too late to break the chains. There are a huge number of resources to help couples enter the swinging lifestyle.
Likewise, if you enter into a loving, romantic relationship with the sacred bond of fucking hundreds of people, after which one of you insists upon becoming monogamous, you have turned that bond into a lie. Ironically, while fucking is never cheating, not fucking essentially is.
Now let us leave monogamy where it belongs, outside our reality.
As swingers, how do the two (Three? Ten?) of you tend to the maintenance of your relationship?
What first comes to mind for me is “spicing things up.” Granted, this is a term many couples use as their motivation, or at least part thereof, for becoming swingers in the first place. While this is beautiful, the seasoning of love and lust can always be adjusted and enhanced.
I’ll try to remember to return here and add to the following list, but here are some ideas I have currently.
“Cheating” The Cheating Game is a lot of fun, and may be considered a mild form of Cuckolding. It may be even more exciting if the wife’s male friends in this game are unfamiliar to the husband–this way their scent will be unfamiliar.
After a nice dinner, and a solo shower for the wife, go to bed without sex. When the wife arrives in bed, husband will pretend to be asleep if he isn’t already, and she will snuggle in. After a while the wife will slide away slightly, jostling the sleeping husband to ensure he actually is aware of what she’s up to.
Now the wife drives off to visit some male friends, maybe half a dozen–enough to get nicely sweaty and loaded with cum.
When the wife arrives home she slips into bed and makes the cum obvious. Perhaps she cuddles the husband and allows it to leak onto his leg. If the husband isn’t hard, it probably won’t take much. This allows the wife to climb on and jack off on him, letting the pre-existing cum flow over his cock and balls.
Prostitution Fantasy Many women have a prostitution fantasy and this is very easy to fulfill. Generally speaking, it is very important to not have the “john” actually pay his own money–this is actual prostitution and therefore is i*****l. The couple should provide the money, therefore making it a loan.
The “john” may be a friend of the couple, but the event is much more exciting if he is initially a stranger to the wife. As with all fantasy fulfillment with a new face, these men must be carefully and thoroughly vetted.
There are all sorts of scenarios you could play out, I list but two below.
The Classy Lady: In this scenario, the wife is dressed very elegantly, with a just hint of slut. She will arrive at a very fine restaurant where the “john” has already secured a table. He recognizes her, approaches, introduces himself, and escorts her to the table. There she finds a single red rose.
The two order, dine, and engage in conversation which initially is ordinary, gradually moving to almost blatantly sexual flirting. Afterward, they retire to a nice hotel, shower together, and the fun starts. When all is said and done, the “john” discreetly places cash on the bedside table.
The Cheap Whore: The Cheap Whore is a much simpler scenario then The Classy Lady. It is best if the motel staff where the fucking will occur are appraised of the situation so they don’t call the police.
A room is already reserved, representing The Cheap Whore having a base of operations. The “john” will arrive as if planning to rent a room. The Cheap whore will then approach, with the classic “Hey, honey, you looking for a date?” or something similar.
The two will then go to the room where The Cheap Whore charges a moderate fee up front. They fuck. It might be fun to have The Cheap Whore do something “My wife won’t do for me.” Maybe he asks to be slapped around a little, spit in the face, or peed on.
Draw Lines and Play Games This is an activity to be done with your swinger friends. By now, they know what you’re into. Make a list of some hard lines–things you simply will not do. Then make a list which includes all the stuff you like, and some things about which you have very strong fantasies but have never quite been able to bring yourself to try–activities which push your lines but don’t actually cross them.
Now your swinger friends get to chose what you do. Maybe they draw slips of paper from a hat, throw darts, roll dice, or simply use their kinky urges to decide.
There are some online resources with surveys to determine your kink status, as well as lists of kinks in general.
My lust to all,
MissoulaMan62.
The eternal monotony of monogamy will inevitably lead to straying eyes, and almost certainly straying genitals. Your spirit, heart, mind, and body comprehend the fundamental need to fuck, and to be absolutely non-monogamous.
Fucking is never cheating. Never. Lying is cheating. Should you make the terrible error of agreeing to a monogamous relationship, then fuck someone else, you are cheating. You are cheating by lying, not by fucking. The two of you already cheated yourselves by attempting to be monogamous in the first place. Remember, it’s not too late to break the chains. There are a huge number of resources to help couples enter the swinging lifestyle.
Likewise, if you enter into a loving, romantic relationship with the sacred bond of fucking hundreds of people, after which one of you insists upon becoming monogamous, you have turned that bond into a lie. Ironically, while fucking is never cheating, not fucking essentially is.
Now let us leave monogamy where it belongs, outside our reality.
As swingers, how do the two (Three? Ten?) of you tend to the maintenance of your relationship?
What first comes to mind for me is “spicing things up.” Granted, this is a term many couples use as their motivation, or at least part thereof, for becoming swingers in the first place. While this is beautiful, the seasoning of love and lust can always be adjusted and enhanced.
I’ll try to remember to return here and add to the following list, but here are some ideas I have currently.
“Cheating” The Cheating Game is a lot of fun, and may be considered a mild form of Cuckolding. It may be even more exciting if the wife’s male friends in this game are unfamiliar to the husband–this way their scent will be unfamiliar.
After a nice dinner, and a solo shower for the wife, go to bed without sex. When the wife arrives in bed, husband will pretend to be asleep if he isn’t already, and she will snuggle in. After a while the wife will slide away slightly, jostling the sleeping husband to ensure he actually is aware of what she’s up to.
Now the wife drives off to visit some male friends, maybe half a dozen–enough to get nicely sweaty and loaded with cum.
When the wife arrives home she slips into bed and makes the cum obvious. Perhaps she cuddles the husband and allows it to leak onto his leg. If the husband isn’t hard, it probably won’t take much. This allows the wife to climb on and jack off on him, letting the pre-existing cum flow over his cock and balls.
Prostitution Fantasy Many women have a prostitution fantasy and this is very easy to fulfill. Generally speaking, it is very important to not have the “john” actually pay his own money–this is actual prostitution and therefore is i*****l. The couple should provide the money, therefore making it a loan.
The “john” may be a friend of the couple, but the event is much more exciting if he is initially a stranger to the wife. As with all fantasy fulfillment with a new face, these men must be carefully and thoroughly vetted.
There are all sorts of scenarios you could play out, I list but two below.
The Classy Lady: In this scenario, the wife is dressed very elegantly, with a just hint of slut. She will arrive at a very fine restaurant where the “john” has already secured a table. He recognizes her, approaches, introduces himself, and escorts her to the table. There she finds a single red rose.
The two order, dine, and engage in conversation which initially is ordinary, gradually moving to almost blatantly sexual flirting. Afterward, they retire to a nice hotel, shower together, and the fun starts. When all is said and done, the “john” discreetly places cash on the bedside table.
The Cheap Whore: The Cheap Whore is a much simpler scenario then The Classy Lady. It is best if the motel staff where the fucking will occur are appraised of the situation so they don’t call the police.
A room is already reserved, representing The Cheap Whore having a base of operations. The “john” will arrive as if planning to rent a room. The Cheap whore will then approach, with the classic “Hey, honey, you looking for a date?” or something similar.
The two will then go to the room where The Cheap Whore charges a moderate fee up front. They fuck. It might be fun to have The Cheap Whore do something “My wife won’t do for me.” Maybe he asks to be slapped around a little, spit in the face, or peed on.
Draw Lines and Play Games This is an activity to be done with your swinger friends. By now, they know what you’re into. Make a list of some hard lines–things you simply will not do. Then make a list which includes all the stuff you like, and some things about which you have very strong fantasies but have never quite been able to bring yourself to try–activities which push your lines but don’t actually cross them.
Now your swinger friends get to chose what you do. Maybe they draw slips of paper from a hat, throw darts, roll dice, or simply use their kinky urges to decide.
There are some online resources with surveys to determine your kink status, as well as lists of kinks in general.
My lust to all,
MissoulaMan62.
2 years ago